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Hey, hi, hello and welcome to another episode of Sativa Talk Podcast where we have blunt conversations. We like to talk about cannabis, of course, whether you are a vet newbie or just curious, we got you covered. And we will get into some lifestyle and entrepreneurship as well. Well we are actually celebrating episode six, but before I do, I would like to bring in my co-pilot for episode six, which is Dracia like glacier. That's right. I now say glacier in my head to make sure that I'm hitting the right syllables the right way. Yeah, one day you won't need it. Yeah. Yeah. That's a good limitation. Yeah. So like I said, we are celebrating Episode six. This number six is a believed to be it to define protect perfection, excuse me, and completion, because the world was created in six days. It's all about sacrifice, healing, protecting, and teaching others. The number six is a symbol of luck in the highest number in the dice. It also is a symbol of Venus which is the goddess of love. I'm a Libra so hey Venus. Venus is out there. Moon's in the rising. didn't yeah okay hey girl hey okay um and the sixth sense refers to extra sensory perception so welcome to episode six and so before we get into the week news i want to thank our sponsors the business entertainment west they are in the business of providing entertainment on the west coast you can find them on ig at biz ent west underscore vegas and let them know thank you for bringing us a t-shirt podcast today airwaves so Dracia how are you feeling let's just take a beat you know when like nothing's going right but you still feel good mm-hmm I mean things are going right too so but okay I'm finding that in the midst of chaos like find something to hold on to and I'm gonna try a new hairstyle, so I'll hold on to that in the midst of waiting for Everything to pan out not like I needed to hey I say this the times gonna pass anyway, so I can be Toe up in the you know to open the game, or I can just flow like water and just move with it. Girl I thought you was gonna say toe up from the flow up because I ain't heard that in a long time. I was gonna say it and I stopped myself. I needed you to though. See you brought it back. I was not, I fixed it. Well you want to know something else that feel good? Well allegedly y'all. So the cannabis story we're gonna talk about today is marijuana. They are saying that it is closing the orgasm gap for women. That is, I stand by that message. And so that it was actually a study in 70% of women more than 70% excuse me, said that they they experienced a more increased desire and climax after consuming cannabis before the act all in itself. So have you? Yeah, I mean, absolutely. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. I agree. I just, I actually when I read the article, I really loved that term. I mean, I don't love the term, I guess, but the orgasm gap. Like, that's a real thing. Yeah, it's like, thanks for acknowledging it. And now give me the science behind it. That's a fact, you know, everyone has their reasons, or whatever for why women don't necessarily achieve climax. I'm going to put all my business out there, but I'll just say that you got to work on it. You got to work. Work. You know, it's not necessarily just this. Oh, yeah. Bang, bang, bang. We done. Like, you might be done, but I am not done. Yeah. And that's why we're here saying didn't even leave the porch. You know thank God for cannabis. Yeah. You know that actually could be helpful for some people who just who don't know but the shameful part is some men don't know that they don't know because ain't nobody told them nothing. And then they mad with you when you just I'm trying to make you better sir. Yeah. And if it's not just for me maybe it is for the woman after me you know this is for you probably wondering why every time you know your friend invites you to come over she's like hey stop by the dispensary up the street yes that's Sativa please you think it'll be Sativa yeah I mean Sativa is more energizing I think okay so in the article I remember it was saying that there's the sensation adjustment adjustment so I believe that an indica definitely will give you a more pleasurable sensation but I believe that sativa and I'm just speaking from my own experience sativa gives you more of that desire slash energetic approach to do what to do okay and you know you can always balance it out with a nice hybrid I can see that and I mean hey this could be a bit TMI but we're talking about it let's talk about it there's been times where because I think it's equally important for a woman to understand herself but there's definitely been times where I didn't smoke the indica by myself and fell asleep and missed my own appointment so you wake up with such disgust to yourself like girl you had plans and you fell asleep. What's that song from back in the day? Because I got high. I was supposed to get some sleep. You know what I'm saying? You know what I'm saying? Rose is sitting there like girl you ain't got time now. You're off today. So yeah but the article also did mention that sometimes you could overdo it. So too much THC or too dependent on it, it could almost numb those sensations that you were getting once upon a time and do the opposite. So I'm like, well, geez, Louise, maybe just find a strain only for that activity, and only smoke it for that for you know, I mean, I guess it is in itself an aphrodisiac. I always do feel a little more frisky. I mean, people could say that about alcohol, you know, I'm not a huge drinker, I'm definitely more of a flower child. But I could definitely see it as an aphrodisiac. And so I wonder if there are any strains out there that are specifically for the bedroom. Oh, there absolutely is. If anyone's watching with the strain, you can reach out to NGT underscore on air at gmail.com and we can... I want to see something. Research. Oh, okay. I just want to... I'm trying to do a case study.

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Yeah, exactly.

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That's what I'm saying.

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See how we can work together.

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Thorough research and we can see how that goes. Because I know they actually have like some oils and stuff that you can use the bedroom that have THC in it that is supposed to enhance and bring tingling and such stuff like that, so Wow little tangle Okay, so this is another thing that I saw in that article that was pretty interesting and I guess, because just thinking of women's health and everything, but the portion in there about women that have pain during intercourse and how having a little flower before the act actually helps their body to relax to a space where they're able to enjoy intercourse. Obviously, if their man knows what they're doing or their person knows what they're doing, they know that they're you know paying attention to the body language noticing if she's comfortable or if she's not comfortable or whatever but all in all they have a better experience less pain when they have a little bit of flour yeah that sounds like an indicator because it kind of relaxes your body or your muscles and get you ready for whatever you want to relax and do but I But I am glad like you said that they are taking the time to do the research that we can pass this along because there is unfortunately someone that's just maybe you're married, maybe you've been in this relationship for a long time, and maybe you thought that you lost it. When in fact, you did not lose it at all. And so maybe this could be a little spark, you know, I did offer it helps everybody because

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it offers a little confidence in your partner he's

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gonna take a lot of credit but you know what you did to we helped you find it yeah I'll help him find it and tag me if there's ever a baby that comes with it I feel like I should get the middle name or something I believe in that I stand by that something yeah just saying okay so moving moving on so just kind of switching it over to our lifestyle. So dating Because everyone is talking about me along and how you know, the whole scandal with her husband was very public very human humiliate humiliating I'm gonna go back on that We gonna leave all that right there English language teacher. Hey, I'm lying. I did not do that. I did not study that in college. I just read a lot. It's okay. I started following this Instagram page. They do a new word every day. And I was like, all right, ain't no shame in my game. Listen, I'll get there one day. Anyway, so dating styles and so dating to marry and everything in between and just being intentional. think as far as a breakup should there be a gap of time before you publicly post someone that you're dating or once you decide it's over with it's up to everybody else to figure out that y'all broke up and you moved on. You know I never understood why people made announcements that they broke up with somebody because I personally don't care and maybe celebrities you know celebrities because they're in the limelight like that, you know, they feel the need to let people know Oh, it just didn't work out. We asked for your you know, you respect our privacy I'm like, well if you wanted it to be private, maybe you wouldn't put it out there the whole relationship because you know Depending on the celebrity because a lot of times they don't really have a choice It's the paparazzi that's gonna be hounding them and they in their business It's now up front so to control the narrative, you kind of got to get on and correct that little damage control. So when it's public like that, so you feel like you know, hey, once y'all break up, everybody figure it out. And let it and even not even celebrity wise, like let's just say you know, calm folk. When it's been a job in a power couple all 2022 2021. But 2023, you want to be a power individual. That should be don't make them just don't even don't respond because people are nosy okay now see I've gotten that okay I've gotten oh who is this or what do you don't even we don't talk any other time but you are you want to know who was with me and precisely that's why and I also feel like cuz okay I get what you're saying if you're dating someone when is the next time so if you're dating someone you stop dating them and then you start dating somebody else and you decide to post that person I also feel like that's your business you know at the end of the day people are always gonna make their assumptions of whatever they whatever they think but if they're not the one that's bringing me my indica sativa marijuana before I use the aphrodisiac with this person that's none of that's none of anybody's business love that analogy I'm just saying so I did want to use this time to kind of talk about just dating period maybe it's a struggle bus okay for both sides I won't say for women it's for everybody involved especially when you're dating with intention and dating for a commitment dating to move things to the next level so I want to tell you about this this I don't know if I told you about this day maybe I don't know okay let's get into it because it's so I met this person right and so it was very like we had a very engaging conversation when first now it's like oh wow like okay cool like this is all right you know I would like to get to know you right because going back on what you said the last time you here Drescher about not committing to someone initially like outright like just keeping your dating options open and not committing so I'm like okay that's fine you know get to know you whatever he wants to meet for lunch perfect I like that let's meet for lunch cuz I like lunch. Yeah, that's fine. So we go to lunch. We went to let's hide downtown and Really? Let's I let I le t h a I so it's like Fancy Thai food. Yeah, it's high. Uh-huh. Something like that. Okay, it's a small shop, but it's pretty cool I do like time. Yeah, listen to you. You heard that's it. The story's over. Okay, go on, go on. So, all right, we go down there for lunch. Mind you, we're meeting at, I wanna say it was like 12 on a Monday, okay? Regular lunchtime. So I get there and he's sitting at the table and he is drunk, okay? And not even like a whoops, I had too many mimosas, I'm kinda tipsy drunk. He had the heavy tongue, call me a taxi drunk. Oh no. And he had two big cups that looked like it came from 7-Eleven and was filled with water. He was not double fisting the water.

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I was like what?

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I couldn't believe it.

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Where'd you meet this guy?

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I met him initially. I met him at Roscoe's Chicken and Waffles.

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Oh my God.

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Y'all know they always have a long wait. So while we were waiting for an hour, we just had conversation. And it was he seemed like a very he was sober. He hadn't gotten in to get his drink on. Right. So I was like, Oh, this is a really nice person. Okay. So we get Yeah, so I sit there and I can smell it. Wow. So I'm sitting there and I'm like, oh, okay, this ain't gonna work, but okay, Angie, just, just do it, you got it, you're here, let's just see if we can get through lunch. I was gonna compliment the guy for being there before you. I was like, oh wow, he's early. But he's early to the cocktails, he's early to everything. Okay. And that was his reason. So I asked, I was like, Oh, so you drink this much, you know, before whatever he was like, Well, I was here. I got here a little early and I was waiting on you. So I had a couple drinks a couple. 11 cups come from because we're in LaTiye. He's giving I've got a flask. He's giving me my BYOB in the trunk. Yeah. Oh, trunk. We'll get to that part. So we're talking and well, I'm trying to just struggle through because I didn't want to be rude. Be like, Okay, so yeah, so he's like, Oh, well, you know, I told my co workers about you. I told my mom and they was all like, you know, don't mess this up. And I'm like, don't mess this up. Whenever dudes say that now. Like at first, I used to be flattered, like, Oh, that's why you better treat me right? You better recognize my worth and recognize like please not rising his pattern. Yeah This is the thing. I just wouldn't care about that man's feelings after he said that I'd be like, you know what? You have messed it up, bro. I'm so sorry Yes, okay. Yeah, I totally totally agree with you Lesson learned though, you know, I learned so okay, so it is able he's telling me that he showed them my picture. He was like, oh, you're Angie Thompson, right? And so apparently found me on Facebook because he knows someone girl. I was like what? So you don't tell people that you stalked them and you show my picture Now I'll tell you this so someone very close to me. I'm not gonna say who it is just they're older than me and they're very close to me and so she so she decided to go on online to date and because one of her friends found got married on this Christian date and site been gone for a long time so I would say 11 years now and so I was gung-ho like wow you're about to go do that do that girl go find you a man on the internet why not right now she had this one guy that she was talking she said yeah and I told him I looked him up on Facebook and I saw he had two Facebooks and one of them had some pictures and the other one had different pictures so I didn't know who he was trying to be. So the next time I talked to him, I told him, I said, I don't know if your Facebook, do you have Facebook? And he's like, yeah, I got Facebook. Oh, because I saw on Facebook that you got two different Facebooks. So I don't know if you got hacked or whatever, whatever. And she's like, you know, he's like, she's like, he never say nothing back. I said, because ma, you can't, you don't tell people that you stalk them yeah we all do it yeah you all got to do your little dig and see who they are but you don't tell the person that's out the gate yeah I like let that ease up ease y'all got to be basically cuddled up after watching Netflix like you know what babe haha I remember I've looked up your profile that's the only that's that's it. Because if that's the first thing you want to tell me, uh uh.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Exactly.

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While you're drunk at noon on a Monday. So let me get back. Okay. Sorry guys. No, it's totally fine. So, um, alright. So look me up. And I'm like, oh boy. Like, oof. And I'm sorry sir, if you happen to come across this on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube. You should have known better. Absolutely. I need you to learn and grow from this. This is no judgment. I would never say your name. So nobody knows No, I just well Anyway, tell me yeah, go ahead. I Mean you show me your co-worker. Okay focus. So, yes, I Didn't want to mess this up and I was like, oh boy So got to talking about, you know, he his last relationship and and at this point this is a ramble you know, he was dating someone but she used to go to the car and do some, I don't know. I don't know if I can even say what she did in the car and come back to the party, come back a different person. And so that's why they broke up. And so that's why he's dating. And then the waitress comes over and she's I can already say she's fed up with both of us. I mean, we're fed up with him more so like, feeling sorry for me like girl, you need help. So she goes to take our order. And after she takes his order, she's like, okay, got you, thank you. And he's like, no, you don't got me. You don't got me. She got me. She's my queen.

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Okay.

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Sir, please stop.

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What kind of date was this?

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This was horrible.

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So I'm ordering my food and I'm like, okay, let me get the whatever I don't because I don't really do was it fuh? Is that you pronounce it? I don't really do too much of that. So I like to stay safe in that realm And he's like, oh, no, we'll get the one with the chicken cuz I like chicken Maybe this for me. He's like, oh, no, we're gonna share our meals I'm and maybe we could talk about this another time but sharing meals on the first date Absolutely. No, I don't share meals on the, this is probably the, I don't know, if I go out tomorrow with my man, it's probably 900 feet, and we 9 times 10, not sharing the meal. I'm all for sharing, but it's all about the energy. I share with my homegirls, but he gonna get me my own food.

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That's what I said.

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Or I'll get him his, you know. I'm gonna order what I like, and you order what you like, and we gonna do that.

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We can taste it.

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I don't even want your fork on my plate. We don't know this man. So yeah, so he's going back and forth like I said, tell him the waitress I'm his queen and that he you know he really wants me to come along to to help him and and that because at this time I was doing a detox I had you know did a month or so I didn't consume any cannabis I didn't drink I didn't do any of that right so it's like oh well respectfully I won't drink around you. It's too late. I was like so you showing up drunk. You in the past tense. That was you. So that's how he worded it. Like him showing up. The fact that he had those drinks before I got there and not while I was there was him respecting me. I was like I gotta get out of here. So I'm so mad. I started to record it but my homegirl called and I just had her on the phone and she heard all of it. It was quite the experience. So fast forward to the end of the the lunch It's time to pay and go and respectfully. He did pay for my meal. Thank you, sir Drunk or not, you know, huh? Y'all shared it or y'all got separate?

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Separate! Oh, the food?

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No, yeah, no, I wasn't gonna no and also I'm not gonna lie I was a little triggered because I have I've had some People who struggle with alcohol in my family. So, you know, it wasn't as funny at the moment, because I was already going through something personally, that I was kind of that's why I was detoxing and working on my healing. So to kind of come across him, and that's just goes to show that sometimes when you're in the process of healing, things are going to come up, that's going to trigger you, it's gonna be a trigger you wasn't even healing from. And you just got to kind of roll with it and not let it take over. So yeah, that was a super side note. But um, so yeah, so it's time to pay or whatever. He gives her his credit card, he pays and then he gives me the the checkbook. And he's like, you know, tip or whatever, it doesn't matter. And I'm like, what? Okay, are you sure? You sure you don't want to write this? Now you you my queen, and you write it. And I'm like, okay, all right, so I think I gave him like a $25 tip. And so and I feel like that was still, you know, our meal was 50.

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So,

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yeah, you don't give it to me. So he took it and he looked at it, he was like, and then he closed it up and he's like, okay. And all this time I'm praying like God, Oh, let me back up. I'm sorry, real quick, honorable mention. During this conversation of him, drunkenly telling me about his life story and him wanting to get himself together him wanting a woman to help him get himself together He's like, yeah, cuz baby. I'm on the bus. Oh That's not like you're gonna need a ride home after this lunch. So Yeah, it was a crazy ride. So at this time when he said that I'm like, okay guy if you can get me out of this I'm gonna take it. However, this opportunity come I'm gonna take it So after the check was paid for he goes to the bathroom and I was like, oh gotta go. So the what is to we had two waitresses they both came over and she was like girl he's crazy like are you okay? I was like girl I'm trying to get out of here so they helped me. So one of the waitresses stayed by the table and the other one walked behind me and I had to like speed walk out of there so he wouldn't see me walk out and if he was to come out the bathroom the waitress by the table would stop him be like hey no you need it like kind of distract him. We had the double team, my escape plan and I ran, maybe I ran to my car. I was downtown, I was sweating and I had a parking ticket. That liar! Well, the good news is he couldn't chase you. I think that this is a very... Earlier today I saw where it was saying something about where do you meet men? Like where you meet men? I think that's a conversation for another day definitely not I mean the food is good but not Roscoe's don't Roscoe's hamburger hood canes chickens not even Chick-fil-a maybe maybe so yeah husband a day. So yeah dating with intention um yeah we it takes a little bit more than intention because I'm pretty sure he very well intended to find somebody to help him get better but right what is the intention? I'm not your therapist or your mom so mm-hmm you know definitely agree or your bus driver. All right so I laid all my all my struggles on the table you have anything you want to add to today's conversation? I can totally relate with that feeling of being triggered by the person that you're dating and their actions and how it just kind of reminds you of another time and then you get to feeling how you're feeling. I think that this sounded like when you were saying you were going through this cleansing experience and everything. I feel like sometimes the universe, the creator, God, whoever we will call it, they have a very sick sense of humor And it's like oh he says you don't want to drink, but he poppin bottles Poppin the flask Flask in the middle of the day. Code 45. No, I'm gonna tell you ladies and gentlemen if they drink Mickey's That's how you know you steer clear of that person. I don't even know what that is. Good, exactly Y'all know what Mickey's is in there, don't you? Wesley knows what Mickey's is. Exactly. Yeah. If they're drinking that, no. And that's the whole thing. I think that, and maybe one day we can talk about this. Just the difference between, or is there a difference between alcohol consumption and cannabis consumption? And at what point does it become like too much? Hmm. Because I've definitely dated some guys that it's like, man, you cannot function without the little puff puff pass. Yeah, you know, and I definitely dated the guy with Mickey's in the trash cans. I can't even talk about that. That experience because I'm gonna hold you I might. I might cry. Okay, I don't cry. But it was a lot. Yeah, it was a lot. Okay. But one day we'll get to the big one day I will share that. What was the one drink that we were well I never got the chance to Four Loko. You didn't ever do Four Loko? I have and I kind of regret it. Let me tell you, college days. We had Seagram's. Malt liquor. That's what it is. And I used to, me and my friends, we were in Atlanta tearing them loco's up liver liver just begging for a break toe up every every other day oh we but then they said people were dying from it and I stopped okay thank the Lord yeah whether people were actually dying or not my face was a spice I definitely tried spice back in the college days cuz I wanted to consume marijuana but I wanted to be able to get a job so but people also dying from that I'm sure so I heard about that spice stuff I always stuck with the organics. Yeah, don't. Yeah, absolutely. Never doing that again. But okay, I think I've shared enough with you guys today. So we're going to wrap up the show. Dresha, if you want to give your social media, how can we support and find you? You know what guys? I don't know what I'm doing with my life right now. I'm sure you'll find me because I'm the only one. Literally yeah only and then and that's how we like it. Do you think yeah yeah so don't have your case after me. Thank you listeners for participating and listening to the show. Thanks again to the Business West Entertainment for the sponsorship. If you would like a mention or any sponsorship, you can reach me at angiet.onair at gmail.com. Thank you, Wesley in the studio room. If you would like to run this episode back or you missed any previous episodes, you can search Sativa Talk Podcast on Spotify, Google Play, Amazon Music, Audible, Podcast Addict, and of course, doing LV's website. Just search for the podcast. My Instagram is angiet underscore on air or Facebook Angie Thompson. I want to send my love and appreciation out to you guys for tuning Thompson. I want to send my love and appreciation out to you guys for tuning in and I'll see you next week.

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